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UnknownWarrior
Grand Admiral
Raven Warriors
Joined: July 18, 2002
Posts: 724
From: North Carolina, USA
|  Posted: 2006-08-02 22:51
I posted this on the fleet forums, figured everyone in this family of mine has a right to know.
Well needlessly enough to say as the title states. I probably wont be around or online as much as I truely want to. Just a lot of stress is building on my shoulders right now, tending to four bills each month. And the fact im sitting here trying to give advice to my girlfriend/fiancee and just sitting here watching it fall on deaf ears.
I dont know what the hell im doing wrong but it seems as though no matter what advice I give, or how much of it I give it just doesnt help, at all. If it werent for her mother and her mothers ~@~&&&*^#@% of a boyfriend things would be a bit easier. Though im getting no where obviously since for the past week or so ive been trying to convince her to just move here and get away from all that crap.
Though hey what the hell, guess no matter what i say, just seems like ima be torn apart anyways, since its already doing a fine job. So yeah, early warning, im not going to be around as much for a while...
-Ryan
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Joe dirt
Fleet Admiral
Joined: April 18, 2006
Posts: 273
| Posted: 2006-08-02 22:53
hope everything gets streighten out for ya cya when ya get back
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Slidevail**
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Courageous Elite Commandos
Joined: June 05, 2004
Posts: 25
From: u.s.a. and China
| Posted: 2006-08-02 23:04
i might not be a psychotheripist or a relationship counselor but.....
if this girl really loves you and wants to be with you she would make the move and listen to what you are saying.
if she is not receptive to your thoughts or ideas now...what will happen in the future.
there are plenty of great wommen in this world , and you owe it to yourself and to the person you will eventually marry and spend the rest of your life with, to have that great loving , caring, and mutually respectful relationship you both deserve.
i might not be making you feel better about your current situation , but life will go on . and hopefully you will find ms. right and she will also be a DS fan .
good luck !! and hope to see ya around DS for years to come.
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Lux (Polaris)
Fleet Admiral
Raven Warriors
Joined: April 20, 2004
Posts: 835
From: Asgard
| Posted: 2006-08-02 23:09
Oh? My support wasn't enough for you? Just kidding...but I'll say it again, no problem, good luck, hope you get all your problems solved.
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Koda
Marshal
Fatal Squadron
Joined: August 29, 2002
Posts: 1384
| Posted: 2006-08-02 23:40
yikes.. that sux. not really sure whats going on but sounds like the best route would probably be to just offer her some support but not push her into moving in with you, unless she's living in some kind of Crackhouse situation.. But Overall It sounds like its probably a good thing that She Isnt comming to stay with you.. since your bills are getting bigger without her with you.. no offense to woman.. but a man can live off a ham sandwhich, 4 squares of tp, 8 oz of water, and 4 quarters walking arround money .. on an average day.
-brian
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UnknownWarrior
Grand Admiral
Raven Warriors
Joined: July 18, 2002
Posts: 724
From: North Carolina, USA
| Posted: 2006-08-03 00:01
Its not that Char. Im still living at home with the folks and all. So those four bills wont increase, one of which will disappear here within the next five months or so.
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FATAL TAXI *ADM*
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Joined: February 22, 2003
Posts: 28
From: Ohio
| Posted: 2006-08-03 13:03
Reaper,
Good luck, focus on what's important to get to a peaceful spot in your life.
If I may offer a web site ----This man has a radioshow in the afternoons and it has been a great inspiration. Aside from it Christian based viewpoints, it offers good advice and motivation to people dealing with all kinds of financial crises big or small. If you can find him on the radio, give him a listen.
www.daveramsey.com
Good luck again,
TAXI
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Foxtrot40
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Joined: March 31, 2006
Posts: 4
| Posted: 2006-09-12 12:35
Okay, introductions first. I would like to just go by Fox or Fox-40 on here. Obviously I've only been here for a few months and haven't gotten anywhere playing wise but I tend to keep up with the forums off and on. My best advice is if you two really care about each other, no obstacle should stand in your way for long. Have you ever considered just sitting down with her parents and talking to them? Or are they the complete opposite type when it comes to communication? I don't really know how bad the situation is but I'm sure with a little work on both ends it will come to a halt soon enough. I've been down this road in a slightly similar fashion and it's hard labor. Maybe the two of you just need to get away from all stressors or has there been any improvement between these posts? Keep me updated, bro and good luck.
Fox-40
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Coeus
Grand Admiral
Sundered Weimeriners
Joined: March 22, 2006
Posts: 2815
From: Philly
| Posted: 2006-09-12 16:58
One thing I've learned duo is that no one can really advise you perfectly in a situation like this. Just take what everyone says & make up your own mind.
Good luck bro, we'll be here when ya need us!
[Edit]And the ONLY experience that I can offer to you is that I strongly advise against trying to fight a mother's influence over a girl - whether they get along or not.
[ This Message was edited by: Coeus [I want 482 back] on 2006-09-12 17:02 ]
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